tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4722472542404525075.comments2022-03-27T00:31:15.504-05:00Gay Married in the MidwestNot Alonehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10482405719386603047noreply@blogger.comBlogger634125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4722472542404525075.post-47536016392837150592018-10-28T22:41:36.614-05:002018-10-28T22:41:36.614-05:00It was a good time. I had some fun last week too...It was a good time. I had some fun last week too. I might eight about it soon. Not Alonehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10482405719386603047noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4722472542404525075.post-24261842889750483702018-10-28T10:56:06.277-05:002018-10-28T10:56:06.277-05:00Hot time in the hotel!Hot time in the hotel!BlkJackhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07025379360552538977noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4722472542404525075.post-12756716997350535262018-10-22T23:05:59.840-05:002018-10-22T23:05:59.840-05:00Most of the time they are good for a good cock suc...Most of the time they are good for a good cock suck. Not Alonehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10482405719386603047noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4722472542404525075.post-13393111350649471452018-10-20T14:12:59.468-05:002018-10-20T14:12:59.468-05:00I miss those arcades. We had a popular one in SF ...I miss those arcades. We had a popular one in SF that recently closed down. BlkJackhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07025379360552538977noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4722472542404525075.post-6082619632364281552018-09-24T19:47:25.560-05:002018-09-24T19:47:25.560-05:00No. I’m a redhead. No. I’m a redhead. Not Alonehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10482405719386603047noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4722472542404525075.post-84800850488773598442018-09-23T20:41:44.353-05:002018-09-23T20:41:44.353-05:00Is that a pic of your cock?Is that a pic of your cock?BlkJackhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07025379360552538977noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4722472542404525075.post-18363225935453064572018-09-23T10:47:32.567-05:002018-09-23T10:47:32.567-05:00Somrtimes just putting it out there helps.Somrtimes just putting it out there helps.BlkJackhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07025379360552538977noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4722472542404525075.post-55714594886350249302018-08-27T08:05:36.326-05:002018-08-27T08:05:36.326-05:00Hello. I ran across one of your posts and just fin...Hello. I ran across one of your posts and just finished binge-reading your blog. I don't usually read personal blogs but there was something so heart wrenching about yours. First, please accept my apology beforehand for presuming to know enough about you and your situation to offer ANY unsolicited advice however...<br />please, please, please 'rip off the Band-Aid' and be completely honest with your wife. Your split is inevitable. I am sad for you both but being female, I see things more from her perspective. It will be painful but if she finds out the extent to which you have been involved with men from someone else, she will be destroyed.<br />I think you love her but (wait for it) you are not in love with her. <br />You married her to dispel rumors and to 'cure' you.<br />You never committed yourself to her since you have been having male interactions almost since Day 1 of the marriage. <br />You have never 'let her in' and only allow 'the elephant' to be discussed so far in therapy. <br />You have resigned yourself to this marriage and think it will weather the random hookups because they don't allow much intimacy. My concern is when you meet THE ONE. Have you considered that? He could be anyone; a client, a new church member, your daughter's in law... You mentioned that you wished most would realize that homosexual attraction is chemical. When he comes along, chemical will win, regardless of any promises and plans to stay that you have made. <br />Your wife basically put past relationships aside and committed herself to you and your family. She hasn't dated in years. Starting over for most is difficult but even more challenging for a middle-aged female. Compound that with being blindsided by your news and abruptly having to start over amid the stares, looks and not on her terms.<br />You are 50+ yrs old and cannot continue to allow the opinions of others to be more important than your own. They can't live their lives and yours.<br />Incidentally, I think your family has always known that you are gay, especially those you were experimenting with, due to their comments about not thinking you would marry, you never having a girlfriend and being the mom when playing house. <br />I also think some of them are closeted. As cliche as it sounds 'tomorrow is not promised'. You both still have the chance to have happy lives <br />Please consider the advice of 'Buddy Bear' and 'TwoLives'. They seem genuine and concerned. I don't think they are trying to harm you but are trying to make you wake up before it is too late and two lives and over 20 years of friendship are irreparably damaged.<br />Come clean to your wife and daughter. They are the only ones who matter. Allow them to grieve and then tell everyone else, or not. <br />--AdrianAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4722472542404525075.post-53413147808654797782018-05-30T08:47:29.837-05:002018-05-30T08:47:29.837-05:00The strong hands comment in the profile generally ...The strong hands comment in the profile generally means massage/escort but it’s always tricky cause you can never tell if it’s just a massage or something more. I’m not sure if it’s me, but I kinda wonder if they play it kinda coy to feel out if there’s a mutual connection for anything more to happen.Brucehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06670970539093987978noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4722472542404525075.post-31077258420020101472018-05-03T12:26:35.715-05:002018-05-03T12:26:35.715-05:00 I will play if the opportunity arises. But lookin... I will play if the opportunity arises. But looking at the one app I use A4A, The choices don’t look very positive. As for the tongue. You’ve used it quite well. But this guy put it in, and it stayed there. It was not pleasurable. Laying the cards on the table is the best policy. Not Alonehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10482405719386603047noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4722472542404525075.post-60457456128780238912018-05-03T12:24:20.131-05:002018-05-03T12:24:20.131-05:00Thanks for the info. I will see what I can make ha...Thanks for the info. I will see what I can make happen.Not Alonehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10482405719386603047noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4722472542404525075.post-86045230019712826472018-05-03T08:49:40.197-05:002018-05-03T08:49:40.197-05:00Not play in New Orleans?! What?!
And you have to h...Not play in New Orleans?! What?!<br />And you have to have at least a little tongue action during a good make out, no? I swear our tongues dueled that one time...<br /><br />As far as reading minds, I think it’s funny but I sometimes just say point blank I’m confused by their intentions. I’m sure it comes off as intense and aggressive but I’m just laying all the cards on the table and calling bullshit when I see it. Ha!Brucehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06670970539093987978noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4722472542404525075.post-26091824500890719222018-05-02T21:47:27.588-05:002018-05-02T21:47:27.588-05:00Hey, enjoyed the post about your adventures. I was...Hey, enjoyed the post about your adventures. I was in New Orleans last year with no action, but found an Adult Book Store not far from airport. The place itself was kinda seedy, but I got a good BJ from a nice, normal-looking guy around my age. There were video booths where action happens. It wasn't ideal, but the cruising is a big turn-on for me and at least I got my rocks off. Good luck. ADAMAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4722472542404525075.post-34879026166414511242018-02-19T22:20:38.948-06:002018-02-19T22:20:38.948-06:00Yes...It was nice.Yes...It was nice.Not Alonehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10482405719386603047noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4722472542404525075.post-72267945835157404462018-02-19T22:20:13.668-06:002018-02-19T22:20:13.668-06:00It was a nice load. It was a nice load. Not Alonehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10482405719386603047noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4722472542404525075.post-48509466336506032712018-02-11T21:01:39.626-06:002018-02-11T21:01:39.626-06:00Glad you could enjoy yourself!Glad you could enjoy yourself!Carlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03478447195848504538noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4722472542404525075.post-36540418287076844802018-02-11T08:20:07.871-06:002018-02-11T08:20:07.871-06:00Man, that must have been quite the load!Man, that must have been quite the load!Brucehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06670970539093987978noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4722472542404525075.post-483470165340120972018-01-21T11:28:25.838-06:002018-01-21T11:28:25.838-06:00Don't you know it... I'm looking for som...Don't you know it... I'm looking for something to require me to come visit. I am not on the road anymore, which is a blessing and a curse. Not Alonehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10482405719386603047noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4722472542404525075.post-87613326555333372232018-01-19T08:37:09.430-06:002018-01-19T08:37:09.430-06:00Thanks for the update! Still hoping we can meet ag...Thanks for the update! Still hoping we can meet again one of these days!Brucehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06670970539093987978noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4722472542404525075.post-2407436432904169192018-01-16T21:27:00.917-06:002018-01-16T21:27:00.917-06:00You have fun while you can. Follow your desires. ...You have fun while you can. Follow your desires. It is not bragging at all. Keep it up good man. Not Alonehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10482405719386603047noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4722472542404525075.post-63560144486388142482018-01-16T21:25:54.283-06:002018-01-16T21:25:54.283-06:00Thanks, friend. Thanks, friend. Not Alonehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10482405719386603047noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4722472542404525075.post-47390408383879346732018-01-16T21:25:16.237-06:002018-01-16T21:25:16.237-06:00Thanks Carl. For some reason the extra-curricular...Thanks Carl. For some reason the extra-curricular just haven’t been very important lately. Just trying to get through the day. I have beeen so busy. Not Alonehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10482405719386603047noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4722472542404525075.post-89777008313519450222018-01-16T20:57:50.902-06:002018-01-16T20:57:50.902-06:00Glad to see you back online....good luck with the ...Glad to see you back online....good luck with the business and your extra-curriculars.Carlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03478447195848504538noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4722472542404525075.post-61047777922363202782018-01-13T07:54:51.956-06:002018-01-13T07:54:51.956-06:00I hope 2018 will be a good one for you too. Good ...I hope 2018 will be a good one for you too. Good luck with the business!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4722472542404525075.post-72664432686333741292018-01-11T19:15:23.134-06:002018-01-11T19:15:23.134-06:00I'm not trying to boost but I had plenty of se...I'm not trying to boost but I had plenty of sex. As if I was a slut. <br />I'm trying to cut down this year as much but I already had 3 sex since the beginning of the year. lol Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com