Well therapy went fine.
I now know I'm still a liar, and that we are different.
I now know we parent differently. She authoritarian, and me passive.
I now know she has done nothing wrong, and it is all my fault.
I now know that I am the only reason our child was born.
I now know that she is hurting and really confused.
But in reality I knew all of those things. I am there for her. To make sure she is okay, and gets the help she needs.
I really want to stay in or get out of this relationship in a healthy manner, and that is why I wanted to go back. I was tired of the phone calls where she says shes done. I've left, and don't know if I'll come back. I want her to know where she wants to be and work at it.
We have not really talked a lot since the session, but I feel closer to her because we talked while we were there.
We have another one in about a week and 1/2.... I think it is for the best.
Thanks for all of the good thoughts out there.