And the results are......

Well it was a long drive (3 miles) home to see if I had something bad..... I noticed while I was driving the I had a message.  I had to wait till I was home to check things out.  Well I have Cold Sores.... HSV 1 -  That is it.... I can have sex with  my wife......

phew......   I need to continue to be careful, and probably get another HIV test soon, but It is probably fine as well.   I guess the symptoms must be from a UTI, probably caused by holding it to long on a car trip.   Now to the doctor to get that cured.....

Now I can do more of this...........