Wednesday, January 25, 2012

A Man's Touch

What is it about a man's touch?  I crave it, I love it.

When I think back over my life, there are some touches that are ingrained in my mind. One is the time I felt my wife's body against me naked.  It was really the first time that I was with a woman, or a man naked, feeling their body against mine.  I can feel it right now.  It felt so good, and was so exotic.  Do you remember that. It wasn't really the sex I remembered.  It was the feeling of her touch.  I still love when she touches me, but don't get it enough.  The weird thing is that I get that touch so little, when I do, I don't know how to react, or how to feel.  It doesn't feel right, although I want it.

The second one that comes to my mind is the first time as an adult I touched a man I met on the down low.  It was the feel of his arm.  It was slightly hairy, and felt amazing.  I will never forget it.

I think that is sometimes what I crave.  The touch of another persons body.  Sure I love the sex, but it is the feeling of their skin against mine. The last time I was with a mine, I remember the ..... yeah you know, but what really is stuck in my mind is the feeling as he lay on top of me, me on my stomach.  His legs wrapped in mine.

Touch.  This is what I want.  Why do I want it from a man so much?  I think about that all the time.  


  1. Not Alone, you are not alone on this one for sure. You are right, a man's touch is awesome and profound.

    My hubby's skin and my skin seem so perfect together. It's like they meld into one. I could have skin to skin contact 24/7 and never tire of it.

    I also enjoy the power of a man's arms as he hugs me . . . holds me.

    Thanks for the post.

    1. Thanks Mike. The touch is great isn't it.

    2. I feel the same.... the kissing, cuddling and full-body contact with a man are the best. And I prefer a "real man", a bit hairy, some muscles, the scent of a man.

      All of these generated feelings in me that quickly convinced me that I am gay and my primary interest is in men. The fact that I had sex with my wife for years and got her pregnant four times is irrelevant... the reality is, I`m gay!!

  2. Well, orientation, as most know by now, covers such a wide range. I believe that even straight men crave male touch. No, no, not genital - 'cause we aren't even talking about that right now, are we?

    Fact is, all (or almost all) of us crave and enjoy the touch of another human being. The touch of a woman can make us feel nurtured - but the touch of a man can fullfill the need to feel safe.

  3. Wow can I relate. Thanks for posting man.