I was searching this morning on the web, and found this article. I could relate. Damn I wish there was an easy answer. Wish I could combine all my lives together, and everyone would accept them. It just sucks some days. Decisions in the past screw things up, but time changes perceptions. What I mean is that now, I wish I wouldn't have screwed up my wife's life, but society and my life was different then, and it was the best decision at the time. Gay was not a possibility when I was in my 20's in a small midwestern town.
By the sounds of this article, it might have been a little easier in NYC, but it was still frowned upon. Hope you enjoy the article.
Married Man Seeks Same for Discreet Play
He has a loving wife, a small child—and sex with men on the side. How the Internet has made it easier than ever to lead a detection-proof double life.