Tuesday, June 7, 2016

I'm so excited about today!

I started this blog November 11, 2010 with a post called "Where to start."   From there it was "Why" to "Early years-My first thoughts about men".

I have wrote a lot more about sex in the later years, but all seems good on this blog.

Six years on here... wow, I'm amazed I have kept it going this long.

Thanks to anyone he reads, and comments, and helps me through the challenges of who I am, and who I am not.

Your friend, who knows he is not alone, but
Gay Married in the Midwest.


  1. It's quite a milestone; and, if you are anything like me, quite a cathartic enterprise for blogger and readers alike. Keep up the good work!

  2. It is very cathartic on different levels. I needed to know that others are out there speaking my same language. But it also validates that I am. As a person hiding a big part of me, I need to know that the hidden part is okay, and to think 100,000 times someone wanted to know about it is great. I'm sure the sexual adventures brought the most people here, but many are here just to validate themselves. That feels good as well.

  3. Thank you for writing a great blog. I've been reading your blog for almost two years. About the time I began seeing a gay sex therapist. I too, am married to a female. Before meeting her I had been dating males and have sex with them since my teen years. She really wanted a relationship with me and thought I could live a straight life together with her. But not so. Now with the help of therapy I now realize I'm gay, I'm proud and have accepted my gay sexuality and love it. I seek out meeting gay men at vacations places that I go to by myself, pride events, personal ads and hangouts and have experienced many romantic experiences with gay males and love it. I'm sure she knows and I'm waiting for her to bring up my sexuality for discussion. Everyday I'm coming out a little more and hope to be completely out soon. Keep writing and I'll keep reading.

  4. Thanks for the note!!!!! I know we all have different places we are in our life. I'm glad I can be a part of your life by my writing. I wish I could reach out and hug all of the people who have read my blog, and all of the bloggers I find that are part of my world.