A nice guy that I came in contact with from my blog and I have had some great conversations on Google chat, and he told me about one of his tactics to find guys to have fun with. I haven't tried it, but he cruises the M4W section of Craigslist and sends a nice message to them.
Very nice, like, "How's the luck with the ladies? Male/30 could take care of you. Good luck."
He says he has a 20% success rate or so. Hmmmmm, I might try. I love meeting other married guys like he does.